Cheating men:
It is by nature that most men have a woman on the side even though they might have a main girl. Then you have the faithful ones who are very loyal to their girl and will do everything with all honesty without a doubt. They’ll tell the truth without a problem no matter what the case may be and with those cheating men out in this world living a complete lie will lie about anything, even the petty little things. Some men get caught and some don’t. Although, we women find it ironic why some men don’t get caught while doing their dirt. But did you know that when some men cheat and hiding all evidence, they get caught every time somehow, someway. But the truth in the matter is when women decide that they want to cheat, we don’t get caught! why? for the simple fact that it’s already planned for payback just for the simple fact that we know what we’re doing protecting ourselves from ever getting caught from doing dirt that we also do just because we feel that men are dogs and they need a dose of their own medicine. And when men cheat they normally don’t think before acting. But not all men are dogs, it’s just the rotten ones that spoil it for the rest of the good ones that’s out there.
Survey says: 1 out of 10 men cheat!
Know this: A good man is hard to find, but when we do find the good ones, we have to really hold on to them so they won’t slip away even if that man has a flaw about him that annoys you in the worst way. Ladies we must learn to deal with this it can’t be that bad.
Word from the wise:
If you see a really hot guy and he seems so perfect, well most likely he’s a cheater to the bone because in all actuality there is no perfect man you just have to deal with some annoying habits and hope that he’s not a cheater.
Although when men are in relationships they say that the reasons why they cheat are:
-Lack of attention: Not paying enough attention.
-Too much attention:Suffocating him/Suffocating your man and not letting him breathe.
-Boredom: No excitement, less aroused
- Don’t feel attracted anymore/interests lying elsewhere.
- Insecurity: when a woman is so insecure where it drives a man crazy
From a woman’s perspective:
We don’t condone cheaters. We feel that once a man cheats, he’ll always cheat. We just don’t trust those cheating men that’s out there. However, there is hope and some men do change their cheating ways and some end up doing the same things over and over. If a woman loves a man she’ll stay with him cheating or no cheating. Now we ladies know that it’s all over when a man cheats and we may not be able to trust the man again and it’s not easy leaving a man when you’ve been through so much together.
Then you have the ones who can’t help but cheating constantly on their loved ones and it’s only a matter of time when those cheaters get busted. But what those cheaters don’t know is lying to your partner, is like lying to yourself.
Will the cheating ever stop, or will it go on and on like a cycle!!!
Writer/newly published author
A public relations specialist and a new writer of urban tales and fiction. My first novel will be out in the summer of 2008.